Our Most Potent Weapon Is Our Refusal. Don't Fly.
To paraphrase Liam Neeson in the movie Michael Collins, our most potent weapon is our refusal. I'm driving about 1500 miles round trip for Thanksgiving, and again at Christmas.
Do not opt out of the scanners and submit to physical violation by the airport gropestapo. Drive, take a bus, take a train, or just stay home. There is no right to board a commercial airliner, that's true enough. So refuse to fly until these bastards back down. Boycott air travel and let the airlines, airport administrators, travel agencies, casinos, resorts, amusement parks, chambers of commerce, etc, know that they are missing out on your $$$ because you will no longer surrender your privacy rights and your basic human dignity (and that of your wives, mothers, sisters and daughters) to the power-tripping perverts of the Titty Squeezing Apes. If the airlines and travel/tourism industry would rather go bankrupt than tell Napolitano and TSA to go to hell, then they deserve to go under.
BTW, the 2001 law creating the TSA gave airports the right to opt out of the TSA program in favor of private screeners after a two-year period, so they CAN tell Napolitano to go stick the rape-scanners up her ample backside.